Danerbean+Katertot: BFFs

dear dana,

i am having boy troubles again. isn't that great? you see, dillon is frustrating. you'd think on a school break when he doesn't have those 8 hours of time that he can't spend with me, he'd make SOME effort to see me. some. no.
none.
he's driving me insane. and most of the advice i've gotten is "talk to him and tell him that he has to see you." i tried, incase you forgot. it didn't work. it never works. it's like, he doesn't even care. or he knows that i won't dump him. the other bit of advice i've gotten is "forget about him. he's just leading you on." well, you try forgetting about him after 7 months and he's, well....him. i don't know what gets him girls, but it definitely works for him. and i love him, of course. that makes it damn hard.
i did like danny's "this is an unusual situation." but of course it is. because a) most guys don't do that. most guys WANT to see you because they're horny motherfuckers and they need someone to makeout with them. oh my god! what if he's gay? and he doesn't want to see me because he's afraid of physical contact because i don't have an elf! oh, sorry. back to read b. b) girls don't condone it. so why do i? if all the insecure, unconfident, need-a-man-to-be-happy girls don't condone it, why do i, the ultaconfident, unintimidatable, happy-without-anyone-else girl condone it? hmm? why do i?

your neurotic friend,
caty