thank you!

dear caty,
i kinda understand what you're going through. we actually have very similar situations. well, they are very different but have their similarities. i already gave you a bunch of advice tonight on AIM so im not going to give as much in here. you are unhappy now with dillon not caring about seeing you. so i think its time to let him go. you've had him for a while and it was fun but you deserve better. i know you can get through it and if you need a little help im here for you. i know you'll be happy soon enough.
my situation is a little different. i know everybody in the world thinks we shouldnt be together but for some reason we cant seem to stay away from eachother for more then a few weeks. i love him and cant seem to break free of him. i actually did think i was over him a few days ago. but we just spent the last 2 hours talking on the phone and we both really still like eachother. and we're going to go back out veryyy soon. and you made me realize something. i was afraid to tell you at first because i thought your reaction would be the same as everyone else's. "you're doing whatt now?! omg i cant believe this! i thought you guys were done for good!?" but no your response was:
CatyMonster: Dana, do you think i'm stupid?
owowdana: no.
owowdana: lol
CatyMonster: Then why did you think you needed to tell me that? I knew you weren't, and I don't care. I'm done getting into other peoples relationships. You having a boyfriend who treats you badly is your business.
CatyMonster: :]
owowdana: lol ok :]
owowdana: but i actually thank you for not being how im expecting zoe to be "omg why are you that dumbb" blahhh lol
CatyMonster: oh, i'm yelling at you in my head. but i'll tell you what i told soph. i'll stand behind whatever decision you make and won't even tell you "i told you so."
so this made me realize that anyone who has something to say about it, dont. its none of their business anyways. so why should i care what someone else thinks of my relationship? so im not gonna. if im happy with chandler then screw what everybody else thinks.
but i dont know if this goes for you, but tonight i realized who my one true best friend is. no matter how many times we may fight. no matter how many times we may do bad things to eachother. you, caty, will always be my best friend.
CatyMonster: danerzzz, i'm sorry the last time we fought i said you were closed off and uncaring. i hump you.
CatyMonster: you're not uncaring. you're my bestest friend and you're not self-centered. you're helping me lots and you're caring about me and you're awesome and pretty :]
and its comments like these that make me hump you more and more each day :] caty i dont know how i'd survive without you. thankyou for being in my life and being my best friend.


~dana

p.s.im always here for you. even when you think im not :]